|Anonymous said: ATTN YOUNG PEOPLE: Do not make the mistake of believing a "full life" means you need to experience a detour through heavy drugs and general dirtbaggery. It's all too often not a detour; it's a Siren and it will likely destroy at least some part of you. Being permanently damaged, or worse, permanently shipwrecked is a great way to ensure you DON'T get to experience a full life. And because none of us are special, of course it will happen to you.|
the way people on tumblr talk, it’s like this is something EVERYBODY goes through, and it’s not. literally 99% of people go through life without ever having a coke-fueled weekend bender or whatever other kind of scumbag shit or overall disgusting scumbag phase. it’s not normal.
i am obviously not judging or looking down on anyone who does go through a period like that because I totally did too, but the point is that you are not missing out on anything, and if anyone tries to tell you otherwise they’re full of shit and just trying to rationalize their own bad choices.
|meekenism said: What's the best way to stop cry over a girl|
Hang out with friends, spend time with family, depending on what you do for work—ask for more hours (but don’t overwork), exercise, take walks, travel, find ways to work on yourself for yourself, start a project, fly a kite, remove memory triggers, eat some ice cream, force yourself to hit rock bottom, date some people, go outside more, reflect on both the good and the bad in the relationship, find peace, and/or contact Lacuna inc. about the potential of having your ex erased from your memory (210 E Grand St. New York, NY 10019)